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Släkten hatar mig efter det jag gjorde – hur får jag förlåtelse?

Livsstil / Sex & relationer

Hur länge ska jag sona för mitt ”brott”?

PremiumHans bror pratar inte med honom längre, och släkten tar avstånd. Själv hävdar han att det inte var meningen – och att vilken kille som helst hade gjort samma sak.

Finns det någon väg till förlåtelse?

Sexologen Suzanne Lindström svarar.

”Robin”, 33, undrar om han någonsin ska bli förlåten av sin släkt. Foto: Aloha Hawaii / Shutterstock
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Sexologen Suzanne Lindström svarar på läsarnas frågor. Foto: PETTER ARVIDSON / BILDBYRÅN
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